Deception

     Deception. Feeling let down. These are feelings that are created by our own expectations. We create these expectations, things we want and hope other people will do or believe because we want them too. Now, this is not always because your selfish, it might be because you truly want something good to come out of that relationship. And let us think of relations of all types, marriages, boyfriend/girlfriend, best friend, customer, etc. Remember, our world is based on relations with all living and nonliving things.
     But as I was saying before. We have to learn not to expect anything from no one. This is hard, and is not an easy task. But if we could learn not to expect things that might never happen we would not go through a lot of heartache. And, how can we do this? Well, first we have too work on our communication on these relationships. To have good communication we must first be sincere with yourself and others. So we have to let the other person know how we feel and what we would like in that relationship. If we see that that is not possible, it is then that we decide to continue or not. Of course, keep in mind if you do, do not expect things that are not going to happen.
     So lets review this. Deception comes from expectations. Expectations can be avoided by having good communication skills, this is achieved with sincerity and clarity.